* Tobester

“waiting for the right time…when there is no such thing as the right time. So many of my friends are “waiting” to have get married, have a kid. Waiting to make more money…waiting to move into a bigger place…waiting until they’re emotionally ready. Well, none of this will EVER happen. If you want to get married…get married. If you want to have kids….have kids. I have close friends who were waiting for the right time to have kids…they kept pushing it…next year…the next year. Now they’re getting divorced because one of them got tired of waiting and went and got someone else pregnant.

50 years ago, people lived in one-room apartments, with 10 kids, and ate big bags of oatmeal and rice. They did okay. You’ll do fine.”